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2/27/2025

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​Feeling Anxious About Mental Health Medication Policy Changes? I'll try to help...

2/19/2025

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If you’ve been feeling anxious about the future of medications like SSRIs and ADHD prescriptions, you’re not alone.
There’s been a lot of talk lately about possible changes to how these medications are prescribed—or even whether they’ll continue to be available at all. For those who rely on them to function and feel stable, this uncertainty can be overwhelming.

First things first: what’s actually happening, what could happen, and—most importantly—what you can do right now to take care of yourself.
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What’s Going On?

Recently, there’s been discussion at the government level about psychiatric medications, including SSRIs and ADHD treatments. Some officials have expressed skepticism about their widespread use and have signaled a desire to reassess how they’re prescribed. This has understandably set off alarm bells for a LOT of people who rely on these medications to manage anxiety, depression, ADHD, and other conditions. Myself included.

Right now, though, nothing has changed. There is no immediate ban or restriction on these medications. Changes in healthcare policy take time—often years—because they require extensive review, medical input, and legal processes. So while it makes sense to stay informed, there’s no need to panic about losing access overnight.

Could These Medications Be Outlawed?

It’s understandable to fear worst-case scenarios, but a full ban on SSRIs or ADHD medications is unlikely. These medications are prescribed to millions of people, and the medical community strongly supports their continued availability. Any proposed changes would face significant pushback from healthcare providers, researchers, advocacy groups, and patients themselves.

What’s more likely is a push for tighter regulations around prescribing practices rather than a complete removal of these medications. This could mean adjustments in how they’re prescribed but not an outright ban.

(There are people who think these medications aren't necessary or that folks are "addicted" to them, but understanding the mechanism of these medications can help you understand that you're not addicted any more than a diabetic is addicted to insulin. Don't feel guilty or called out by the words being used. This aside is more emotional than the informational nature of this  post, but man, what's being said is damaging!)

What Can You Do Right Now?

Even though there’s no immediate threat to your medication access, uncertainty can still feel scary. Here are some things you can do to help ease that anxiety:
  1. Talk to Your Prescriber – If you’re worried, reach out to your doctor or psychiatrist. They can provide clarity, discuss any potential changes, and help you plan for different scenarios if needed.
  2. Stay Informed Without Spiraling – Misinformation spreads fast, and social media can amplify fears. Try to get your updates from reputable sources like medical associations or trusted news outlets, and give yourself permission to step away if it’s making your anxiety worse.
  3. Look at Your Options – If you’re concerned about long-term access, you might want to discuss backup plans with your provider. This could include learning about alternative medications or therapeutic approaches that support your mental health beyond medication alone.
  4. Lean on Your Support System – You don’t have to carry this anxiety alone. Whether it’s therapy, friends, family, or support groups, talking about your fears with people who understand can help lighten the burden.
  5. Practice Self-Care That Works for You – This might mean prioritizing sleep, movement, mindfulness, or anything else that helps regulate your nervous system. The goal isn’t to “fix” the worry but to give your body and mind more resources to handle it.

You Deserve Stability and Support

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by all this, know that your feelings are completely valid. Change—even the possibility of it—can be really unsettling, especially when it comes to something as essential as mental health care. But you’re not fighting alone here. There are so many people—doctors, advocates, therapists, and even policymakers—who are fighting to make sure mental health care remains accessible.

For now, take it one step at a time. Focus on what’s in your control today, and remember that there are always options and people ready to support you along the way.

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Trickle-down narcissism: how structural power breeds dysfunction

2/10/2025

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We’re all familiar with the term “trickle-down economics,” a theory that promises prosperity will flow from the top and eventually reach everyone else. But more often than not, those benefits never seem to arrive for the folks at the bottom. What if I told you there’s a similar phenomenon in the realm of leadership culture? I call it trickle-down narcissism. And just like its economic counterpart, it often fails to benefit anyone except those in positions of power.
Trickle-down narcissism occurs when the self-absorbed, exploitative, and image-obsessed tendencies of leaders permeate an entire organization or structure. This dynamic isn’t limited to businesses—it can show up in governments, educational institutions, or any system where hierarchies exist. And just as power and influence flow downward, so too does dysfunction.

The Domino Effect: From those with power to those without
When narcissism is embedded at the top, it creates a ripple effect that shapes workplace culture, policies, and relationships. Leaders driven by self-interest often prioritize their public image, control, and personal gain over the well-being of their teams or constituents. This isn’t just a leadership problem; it becomes a systemic issue.
People often find themselves navigating an environment characterized by:
  • Fear-based decision-making: People become afraid to make mistakes or share honest opinions, fearing punishment or ridicule.
  • Loss of autonomy: Micromanagement and rigid control stifle creativity and innovation.
  • Emotional exhaustion: Constantly navigating a toxic environment leads to burnout and disengagement.
  • Dehumanization: Individuals feel reduced to cogs in a machine, valued only for their output.

The Stanford Prison Experiment Connection
One of the most compelling illustrations of how power structures influence behavior comes from the infamous Stanford Prison Experiment. Participants assigned to positions of authority quickly internalized their roles, adopting authoritarian and dehumanizing behaviors. The experiment demonstrated how environmental and structural factors can profoundly shape people’s actions.
Trickle-down narcissism operates in a similar way. When those at the top normalize self-serving and dismissive behavior, it encourages similar patterns among managers, supervisors, and even peers. People may adopt these behaviors as a survival strategy or simply internalize them as “the way things are.”

Signs of Trickle-Down Narcissism in Organizations
It might not always be obvious, but there are telltale signs that trickle-down narcissism is at play:
  • Micromanagement and control-based leadership: Leaders exert excessive control over small details, undermining autonomy.
  • Lack of transparency and accountability: Information is tightly guarded, and blame is often shifted downward.
  • Blame-shifting culture: Mistakes are punished rather than used as opportunities for growth.
  • High turnover and burnout: Folks leave or disengage because the environment becomes intolerable.
  • Fear of speaking up: Psychological safety is absent, making honest communication risky.

The Psychological Shift for those not in powerful positions
Over time, working in a narcissistic environment takes a psychological toll. Employees may experience:
  • Erosion of self-trust: Constant criticism or blame leads to self-doubt.
  • Compulsive approval-seeking: People become hyper-focused on gaining validation from leadership.
  • Disconnection from values: The toxic environment forces folks to compromise personal beliefs and goals.
Even those who originally have strong values and healthy boundaries can become complicit or desensitized to the dysfunction.

Why the Structure Matters
Trickle-down narcissism isn’t just about a bad "boss" or two. It’s about how leadership structures and policies reinforce toxic dynamics. When systems prioritize power, control, and image over people’s well-being, narcissistic tendencies become normalized.
But here’s the good news: structures can change.

Hope for Change: Moving Away from Trickle-Down Narcissism
Empathy, transparency, and accountability can also flow downward. Just as dysfunction can permeate a system, so can compassion and healthy leadership practices.
To break the cycle of trickle-down narcissism, organizations can:
  • Empower the less powerful: Give people autonomy and recognize their contributions.
  • Foster accountability at all levels: Leaders should model accountability and openness to feedback.
  • Prioritize psychological safety: Create spaces where people can speak up without fear.
  • Value collaboration over competition: Shift from a hierarchy-focused mindset to a team-oriented culture.

Conclusion: Breaking the Cycle
Trickle-down narcissism thrives in environments where power goes unchecked and self-interest reigns supreme. But it doesn’t have to be this way. By shifting leadership practices and fostering healthier structures, we can create environments where empathy, collaboration, and well-being are the norms.

However, we can’t expect these changes to come from those in power. Businesses and governments often prioritize profit and control over people. It’s up to individuals and communities to speak out, hold leadership accountable, and demand environments that value humanity over hierarchy. When enough voices rise, change becomes not just possible—it becomes inevitable.

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Joanne Mackie, LMHC, CCTPI and CCTPII, CGPS I & II
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